人生都在學做人!

人生都在學做人

星云大師有一位徒弟，台大畢業後，到夏威夷讀碩士，又到耶魯讀博士，花了好多年的時間，終於得到博士，非常歡喜。有一天他回來，對星云說：「師父，我現在得到博士學位了，以後要再學習什麼呢？」星云說：「學習做人。」

學習做人是一輩子的事，沒有辦法畢業的。星云覺得人生，不管是士農工商、各種人等，只要學習就有進步，今天要跟大家分享需要學習的事。

第一、「學習認錯」

人常常不肯認錯，凡事都說是別人的錯，認為自己才是對的，其實不認錯就是一種錯。認錯的對象可以是父母、朋友、社會大眾、佛祖，甚至向兒女或是對我不好的人認錯，自己不但不會少了什麼，反而顯得你有度量。學習認錯是美好的，是一個大修行。

第二、「學習柔軟」

人的牙齒是硬的，舌頭是軟的，到了人生的最後，牙齒都掉光了，舌頭卻不會掉，所以要柔軟，人生才能長久，硬反而吃虧。心地柔軟了，是修行最大的進步。一般形容執著的人說，你的心、你的性格很冷、很硬，像鋼鐵一樣。如果我們像禪門說的調息、調身、調心，慢慢調伏像野馬、像猴子的這顆心，令它柔軟，人生才能活得更快樂、更長久。

第三、「學習生忍」

這世間就是忍一口氣，風平浪靜，退一步海闊天空；忍，萬事都能消除。忍就是會處理、會化解，用智慧、能力讓大事化小、小事化無。各位要生活、要生存、要生命，有了忍，可以認清世間的好壞、善惡、是非，甚至接受它。

第四、「學習溝通」

缺乏溝通，就會產生是非、爭執與誤會。現在中國大陸、香港和台灣，兩岸三地最重要的就是溝通，相互瞭解、相互體諒、相互幫忙，大家都是龍兄虎弟，互相爭執、不溝通怎麼能和平呢？

第五、「學習放下」

人生像一隻皮箱，需要用的時候提起，不用的時候就把它放下，應放下的時候，卻不放下，就像拖著沉重的行李，無法自在。人生的歲月有限，認錯、尊重、包容才能讓人接受，放下才自在啊！

第六、「學習感動」

我們看到人家得好處，要歡喜；看到好人好事，要能感動。感動是一個愛心、菩薩心、菩提心，在我幾十年的歲月裡，有許多事情、語言感動了我，所以我也很努力的想辦法讓別人感動。

第七、「學習生存」

為了生存，我要維護身體健康，身體健康不但對自己有利，也讓朋友、家人放 心，所以也是孝親的行為。

My Breakfast of the day! Fried Egg!!!

Fried Egg with awesome chili sos!!! Nice!!

Fried Egg with awesome chili sos!!! Nice!!

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School Food Fair!!!

Today my sister ,brother and i going to my school food fair!!!

And before i going to school, I set my hair and make up to seem like more handsome!!!

I use half an hour to do these thing, =,,=||| (so long)

Because our school too many people haha!!!

Some of my friend been suprised because so different with during school time

(during school time~~flat hair)

(free time~~spiky hair and make up)

MWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

And today something that suprised me is...

I meet Preeti Lo!!!

OMG!!! So long time no saw her already!!!

She is white and thin!!

Not so fat like before!!!

Haha she getting preetier!!

Wish you have a great day at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia!

Whatever, all the best for you my friend, Preetti!!!

Today I also met Ngu Ming Hui and some good friends,Yu Wen and Khiew Vun Fung!!!

And Ming Hui why you no sell me the laksa!!!! Haiya!!! Haha!!!

And when i walking with my friends,

most of the food I cannot eat, OMG!!!

20%~can eat, 80%~ cannot eat!!!

How pity am I!!!

At last, I was suprised because I see 叉烧饭!!!

And I think why have these pork rice???

Our school only Halal right???

I was confuse that time ^^

And then I go back to home with my brother and sister!!!

There are nothing to eat for me!!! Haha!!!

Maybe still need wait my body disease is cured!!!

:(

Mooncake Festival~~~Figure Introduction!!!

Its me!!! The most handsome guy among us!!! HAHA!!!

Ngu Ming Hui!!! The fatty girl!!!

Lawrance Tong King Kai!!! The pinple guy!!!

Jemi Ngu!!! The Braces girl!!!

Nhu Ming Hui's sister!!! Xiao Meimei!!!

Mooncake Festival~~~

During we play the lantern~

HAHA I LIKE TO ACT LIKE A GHOST!!!

At last, Jime Ngu play with us!!

We like a crazy people playing these things!!!

Lawarance Tong King kai!!!

What are you doing to my ass hole!!!

And that Ming Hui and Jemi Ngu,

look like they support Lawarance to fuck my ass hole!!!

Haha!!! I think this photo very funny!!!

At that time...we keep laughing because,

Ming Hui's sister (Photographer) Keep laughing at us.

Am i look like a ghost in the first, second, and third photo???

PRA 2 IS FINISH!!!

YEAH!!! The test is finally over but we gonna meet with our lovely PMR soon!!! I hate PMR...Because of you..make me play less computer!!! And i miss my online game too!!! And today when we are having our chinese test...when i see the paper...I shocked!!! Because so many question i dont know how to do!!! OMG!!! Then i keep ask my friend!!! That is out class blackie, CONNIE!!! and our class model girl, TOH ZHI LING!!! But Zhi ling give me more answer!!! That time i think i was save but......after the test i very happy and ask her you know how to do??? You know what she answer me??? Zhi ling:'I also don know how to do le...so many not comfirm!!! But nvm lah...she still help me a lot...And Connie give me a few answer only about 2 or 3 answer ba...haha!!! This time i think i dead ord...Lake of confident to see my result next week......19 days to have our PMR test!!! All the best for my friend!!! ;)